A beautiful day in sunny Florida.
Judging by this picture one might get the idea that we enjoyed a tropical vacation.
The main reason for our trip was to move my mother-in-law into assisted living from the apartment she has been in since 2014.
We drove down on Thanksgiving day.
Not knowing what would be open, and in an effort to save time, we packed lunch and ate at a rest stop.
Turkey Jerky, sweet potato chips, homemade pumpkin muffin and clementines were my attempt at making this somewhat unusual Thanksgiving still seem festive.
The traffic was light as we had hoped.
We arrived at our first destination in time to celebrate with our son and his family. Thankfully we were able to visit with them for a few more days.
Jaxson loved going on walks with his grandparents and showing us the best views in his neighborhood. Grandma wanted a picture by the pretty poinsettias.
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Soon it was time to head further south and begin our work.
We spent 6 days going through my mother-in-law's belongings.
She is in a much smaller place now so everything had to be dealt with in short order. Like so many from her generation. she was a saver. I was amazed to come across her high school scrap book filled with crumbling corsages. Boxes and boxes and boxes of photos made me glad that we now store them on our devices for the most part. We brought back what we could fit in the car to be distributed to various family members. We lost count of trips to the donation center.
Once the jobs were done, we enjoyed a celebratory dinner and visited her in her new home.
Mother & son enjoyed the Christmas carols being played on the piano and a nice conversation.
Somewhat teary goodbyes are always hard.
At 95 years old she is in remarkable health.
Prior to her move she had a few falls and it became clear that she couldn't live alone anymore. Convincing her of that was interesting (to say the least). After an adjustment period she is now doing very well in her new home.
We are now back home and Christmas seems to be coming way too fast. The smartest thing I've done in a while is ...
After a very busy few weeks and a long drive home it was so nice to walk into our home all lit up for the holidays.
Merry Christmas to me :).
This afternoon is my eye injection appointment and then I'm off the computer for a few days. Can't wait to have a minute to sit and catch up on blog reading.
It's hard work encouraging older members to accept that time passes and things change. Your mother-in-law looks remarkably fit, but farewells are always hard.
ReplyDeleteThat was a lot of work! And hard emotionally too. I'm glad she's settled in and doing well.
ReplyDeleteYes, you were very smart to have your decorating done and not have to do it when you got home.